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How To Have A Better Relationship With Your Attached Ex Pt.1

August 7, 2018 by Yen

Do you want to have a better relationship with your ex wife, ex husband, baby mama or baby daddy? Learn the Law Of Attraction tips that make it drama free in this post and in the Part II fb video.

Why does having a better relationship with an ex even matter?  It does, certainly if you have children with your ex.  I don’t know about you, but I didn’t have time for anymore baby-daddy drama…and I was done dating men that had baby-mama drama.

Aside from the possibility of drama, it’s hard to be happy in the present when the past is still breathing fire at you.  In order to experience soemthing new, leaving room for it is absolutely necessary, so you can’t live the past taking up space that your blissful present should be occupying.  Do you know what I mean?

When your emotional energy and interactions can be peaceful, light and joyful you can attract that type of new relationship.  If relations with an ex are difficult, depressing or debilitating, then it clouds up your vibe, and your new boo won’t even see you.

As you begin to pay attention to these sorts of things in your life…you are actually helping your chakras, your 2nd chakra in particular, known as the Sacral chakra.  Each chakra is more than an energy center in your body…it has an energetic that reflects a specific area or aspect of life.  I like to call them “realms of life”  There are many teachings on the esoteric meanings of the chakras, some or even bibilical.  However, we will save that for another day, and I will leave that to you, to study and research.

As a Reiki Master, I will not only observe and help my clients attune their chakras with different types of energy tools, I always share with them the issues in their lives that reflect the imbalance of their chakras.  I have created a 2nd Chakra -SACRAL Focus Guide that offers foods, herbs, crystals, astrology and meditative guidance to working with this center.

Two stones that I often use to assist in clearing and energizing this area are Orange Calcite and Citrine.

Orange Calcite Spheres 

From the Book Of Stones, “Orange Calcite is deal for dealing with long-standing problems and encourages one to see old dilemmas in new ways, it can assist one in dispelling the aspects of one’s life which need to be released before one can move on.”

Natural Citrine Point

From the Book Of Stones, “Natural Citrine assists one in overcoming difficulty, maintaining effort through adversity, and taking decisive action to resolve difficult siutations.  It assists one inovercoming feelings of being undersving of abundance.”  You may purchase a citrine stone or jewelry item to wear here.

The Fourth Chakra

How to Have A Better Relationship With An Ex Part II is about the affect of this unresolved energy on your Fourth Chakra, The Heart also known as the  Khepra Arit in the Kemetic Reiki System.  In this video I speak about how I used the Law of Attraction and other Universal Laws and alchemy to change my relationship with my children’s father.  It worked!  I give the juicy details over there so check it out.

These teachings and many more are apart of my SYNC UP Chakra Wellness School…there’s a class or more for each realm of life that corresponds to a chakra.  Using this process will send you on your way to the “crown of the pyramid ” A.K.A. Self Actualization A.K.A.  being who (and how)  you really want to be in life! lol  Check it Out and Join Today.  We are staying on it…being our best selves every single day.

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This has been shaping recent workshops and conversations I’ve been holding, including a dreamwork offering here in Costa Rica. (I’ve spent about 6 weeks here and it’s gifted me with many new lessons, along with some good ole sunshine)
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A feral woman doesn’t know she is feral. She may t A feral woman doesn’t know she is feral. She may think she is just exercising her right to be, and in that she is.

A feral woman is a woman who had been captured and imprisoned, lived in a freedom-starved place for so long, that her original instinct, her intuitive knowing of how to live and be- have been altered and damaged. Though now she is free and acts according to her drives with an uncalibrated inner GPS and the fences of her natural boundaries have been torn down, yet she doesn’t realize this. She is feral. 
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She may believe she acts on behalf of her own volition, yet she does not. She is unaware.
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She is akin to an animal with little instinct…an animal born in captivity, then set free into the wild, whose existence is in danger. For she doesn’t know the dangers that are, so how can she know better.
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She is the Fool of the Tarot unbeknownst  of the cliff she approaches.
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She may be like the Indominus rex of Jurassic World, killing everything on sight or Sil from Species, just looking to f%$k.
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A feral woman acts and does of only that which she knows and she does not know the world (or herself) as it truly is. 
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Have you been starved or are you starving for something?
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